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Power of Voice
By Ron
Gilliland, CPCC
What is your dream? Do you have
access to the energy you need to speak powerfully about your
dream?
On August 28, 1963, Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr. stood on the steps
of the Lincoln Memorial in Washington, D.C., and delivered his I
Have A Dream speech. He mobilized thousands and opened the
eyes and hearts of countless others. How did he do it?
His attention was not only on the crowd around him or the words
in front of him. It was also inner-directed; to the values he intended
to embody, to the images of which he spoke, to whatever supported
him in sustaining the energy that created the magic of that moment.
As his attention shifted from image to image, to the many aspects
of his dream, so did his voice. It moved through a variety of energetic
intensities and vocal qualities that compelled people to keep listening
and to get into action.
Where do you focus your attention?
Where we place our attention produces an energy in our being and
a quality in our voice that either connects us with or disconnects
us from others. If we want to shift our energy and the quality of
our voice, we need to shift our attention.
What gets in the way?
The most common blocks to our ability to focus are fear and overwhelm.
Fear of saying the wrong thing, of upsetting others, narrows our
field of attention. And as a defense against overwhelm, we work
to avoid and ignore. The resulting lack of awareness slows or completely
blocks our ability to shift our energetic level and vocal quality.
We box ourselves into a seemingly safe zone which can become a seemingly
impenetrable energetic block.
Recognizing the Limits and the Impact
of the Default Zone
Our default, one-size-fits-all safety zone, narrows our ability
to connect and convey. Imagine if Reverend King's speech had been
delivered from a safety zone.
If we have been speaking from a default, one-size-fits-all zone,
our use of the voice has become limited; similar to a musician playing
the same set of notes regardless of the song. The voice, having
followed our unconscious attention for so many years, now requires
some conscious re-placement. The more safety we've been trying to
create from ourselves, the stronger the default and the smaller
the zone.
The Body Connection
As we look out beyond the voice, we notice that the body has a
particular default physicality to it as we speak. It tends to lean
forward, stand straight, lean backward, or perhaps go through a
set combination of movements as we speak.
Aligning the Voice with Our Passion
I worked with a client whose vision of success included personal
prosperity and creating opportunities for others. It was consistent
with the enormous heart, energy, and creativity that she operated
from in the rest of her life.
Yet as she spoke of her dream in our phone sessions, I heard a strain
in her voice. The register of her voice stayed consistently high.
The volume fell at the end of her sentences. In general her voice
sounded caged, as if it wanted to break free.
When I asked her about her physical posture, she discovered a tendency
to cave slightly inward and to lean forward. We also talked about
her breathing, and she noticed that it was somewhat constricted.
We explored different points of focus, consciously re-placed her
voice lower in her throat, and opened up her body posture. It was
inspiring to begin to hear the energy of her dream resonate in her
voice. She was up to big things, and it was time for a bigger voice.
She described her experience as a "Slowing down, a settling
into my body, so that the voice came from more of me."
How I came to discover this work
I became aware of my default zone during a year-long leadership
training intensive. The feedback that I received from the leaders
and other participants was that they wanted to see more range in
the way that I interacted with the group.
Ironically, from my earliest remembrance, I was imitating the voices
of entertainers and politicians on TV and the characters in our
little town. Yet somehow I had unwittingly developed an adult persona
that had a monochromatic way of being. I could connect with people.
I could communicate to them that I cared. I could sell a product
and a service. But when it came to expressing my passion and leading
people, I ran into seemingly impenetrable energetic blocks.
As a result of my frustration of not being able to break through
what the leaders called “energetic holdback,” I gave
myself a homework assignment to look for ways of becoming more self-expressed.
The first thing I did was to sign up for voice-acting classes.
Acting Out My Range
In my first voice-acting class, the assignment was to read a monologue
three times, conveying a different attitude with each read. The
director told me to imagine I was talking to someone so that it
didn’t sound like I was just reading a script. In order to
convey a sincere, respectful attitude I was directed to see in my
mind’s eye someone who I admired and respected. To convey
anger, I was directed to see in my mind’s eye someone who
pushes my anger buttons. And to convey a lighthearted feeling, I
was directed to see in my mind’s eye someone who makes me
laugh. I was also directed to adjust my posture and body movements
to match the feelings I was trying to convey.
As I took that direction, the energy in my body shifted, and the
quality of my voice followed.
My “Aha”
The director in a voice-acting class pointed me to what proved
to be a profoundly useful discovery. What I discovered was a way
to access more of my own range and tools with which I could coach
my clients. Voice Coaching for Coaches and Leaders emerged as I
directed my clients to align their intention with the conscious
placement of their attention. Regardless of the coaching agenda,
how and where a client places the power of their attention and how
they hold and move their body can give them access to unrealized
aspects of themselves. It is a key to finding their authentic voice
because it unlocks the channel between the voice and the heart.
Coach as Director
Instead of a script of words, it’s a script of circumstances.
Instead of a character in a play, it’s a client deciding who
they need and want to be in life. The Coach as Director calls the
client forth by directing them with tools and principles transferred
from the art of theater to the art of living.
Where will you be standing when you deliver your I Have A Dream
speech?
How to contact Ron:
Ron Gilliland, Voiceover Artist and Certified Professional Coactive
Coach, is available to coach individuals, couples, and groups. He
is also the creator of productive and fun workshops and retreats
in Bodega Bay, California.
Contact him for more information.
phone: (707) 478-4491,
e-mail:
CoachRon@DefiningSuccess.com
website:
www.DefiningSuccess.com.
© 2002,
Ron Gilliland CPCC,
all rights reserved
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Ron Gilliland, Voiceover Artist and Certified
Professional Coactive Coach, is available to coach individuals,
couples, and groups. He is also the creator of productive and fun
workshops and retreats in Bodega Bay, California.
Contact him for more information.
phone: (707) 478-4491,
e-mail:
CoachRon@DefiningSuccess.com
website:
www.DefiningSuccess.com
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